Yes do tell.
As we all know the best laid plans of mice and men don't always work out!
Way back when I started talking my wife into playing flashing games we wasted more time planning and setting up things that never happened. She'd get pissed so from our late teens on basically if we wanna play games she just puts on what we call her
play clothes and let things happen.
Not only have we surprised others we've gotten many surprises ourselves.
Back to Dollie dressing to go to clubs, yes we actually have been in a few swingers clubs just to see what might go on and not to actually swap. But contrary to your dress codes, Dollie usually wore her pussy showing mini skirt or hot pants and a top that would not contain her titties. Not that we were trying to swap, we just enjoy her being an exhibitionist. It's always been fun anyplace she wears her play clothes.
Most often temporary friends to visit and talk anatomy, fee drinks, and fun are all that happen.