@GRITS: It looks like that bedsheet is so wet... its transparent...!
@GRITS: Some swingers parties are different, but for the most part- I agree with what you say. My wife thou, likes to be completely nude since I got her over her shyness. But I prefer her to be slightly dress - sans underwear. But the parties we go to are more BDSM oriented, so likely her boy-slave in training will be naked around 50 strangers this friday night.
@luv2Bnaked: Do fantasy talk, make sure you're not doing pressure for opening the marriage JUST so you can get pussy on the side. When I meet my future wife, I told her I was into open relationships and 3somes+. Hell, in the past 4 weeks before I meet her I had dated and had sex with 3 different women. She was kind of okay with it and said she'll never have sex with other men. A few dates later while we were on the subject again and that she does like pussy too. She asked "What if I wanted to have sex with another man?". It took me about 2 seconds to answer that question "It wouldn't be fair for me to have sex with other women and not allow you the same respect to have sex with other men. Just don't cheat, do it behind my back, etc". It was many years ago.
She had sex with her new boy toy yesterday. They are out for drinks and darts at this very moment... I'm to pick them up and drop him home and its her and my time for the rest of the night. When I'm done with this post, I'll text her I'll pick her up in 20~30 miinutes and that she can have a quickie in the back seat if she wants while I drive.
At an upcoming Halloween party, which is sex-positive - I expect to have sex with at least 2 other women that night. My wife will have sex with both men and women.
I've made videos of her petite body being by other guys which she copies to her phone and will watch from time to time.
When you make love to your woman, you feel her and see a closeup POV. When you watch other men fucking your wife, you can look from other angles, distance, watch her toes curl up - see what she does. I also use that as educational to learn new styles and try new things.
Getting started doing such things is slow, you got to be honest with each other and yourselves. I get off that others (men and women) want to have sex with my wife. Mine likes to eat women while being fucked from behind or I'm fucking the woman that's eating her out.
Good luck!