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Originally Posted by GRITS
This is wifey.
Hi, sorry to hear that about your wife.. h oneastly, being a women I feel that from what you said, she really just dosen't want to swing, and uses that as an excuse.. Anyone who wants to swing, means that they are horny enough to actually do it becaus e they want to,, NOT because their hubby wants them to do it.
If she really has a killer body, trust me she knows it. Baby scars, etc. don't mean much to anyone who wants to swing and fuck. ===>>>>>Try taking her to a swing club, dress a little (schoolgirl otfits work well) risque, but put no pressure on her to do anything.. just go as voyeurs and watch and drink and observe. No club requires naked Or sex. We often go and just voyeur because we don't play w/ strangers.. She will probably enjoy flirting, or being flirted with to give her more confidence, or move her closer to feeling she wants to try it. Thats all important.. , not get mad if she gets flirted w/ , and not be disgruntled if she only enjoys voyeurism at the club.. It may take a year or 2 of that attitude at a club maybe once every 3/4 months, but in the long term it will pay off. You have to go the distance to make it happen, if its going to. Self control for the long run results.
Thanks for responding to hubbys writing about us...  BTW- did you guys like my NEW bikini? |
Dollie here............Yes hubby loves how you look in anything or out of them.
We love the way you both write about your adventures and how you enjoy it. I love a lot of men taking turns and filling me so full of cum it runs all over. To me this is all new even though I am very old. Most men don't seem to care how old I am. Sometimes it's an advantage. Most of my lovers are repeats and some have been having sex with me many times. Several have been feeling me up for 20 years so we really are select special friends.
As long as I can remember hubby has wanted to swap or go to a swingers club. I always refused. I think you convinced me to try it as just voyuers. I do know once I get there and men start feeling me I will be too weak to say no. But before I wouldn't let others fuck me. That was my only real worry. Thanks. I will surprise hubby by asking him to take me to a club. Well he'll probably read it here.
Keep in mind I didn't know about a lot of these things or do this until my husband joined a few adult groups a few years ago. I decided I am too old to miss the things I read about and things just happened. Where we live it was easy to dress like a wh*r* and meet old lonely men. After that word got around. People are great and understand.