This is wifey.
Hi, sorry to hear that about your wife.. h
oneastly, being a women I feel that from what you said, she really just dosen't want to swing, and uses that as an excuse.. Anyone who wants to swing, means that they are horny enough to actually do it becaus e
they want to,, NOT because their
hubby wants them to do it.
If she really has a killer body, trust me she knows it. Baby scars, etc. don't mean much to anyone who wants to swing and fuck. ===>>>>>Try taking her to a swing club, dress
a little (schoolgirl otfits work well) risque, but put no pressure on her to do anything.. just go as
voyeurs and watch and drink and observe. No club requires naked Or sex. We often go and just voyeur because we don't play w/ strangers.. She will probably enjoy flirting, or being flirted with to give her more confidence, or move her closer to feeling she wants to try it. Thats all important.. , not get mad if she gets flirted w/ , and not be disgruntled if she only enjoys voyeurism at the club.. It may take a year or 2 of that attitude at a club maybe once every 3/4 months, but in the long term it will pay off. You have to go the distance to make it happen, if its going to. Self control for the long run results.
Thanks for responding to hubbys writing about us...
BTW- did you guys like my NEW bikini?