Not part two
Thanks Netcouple, but IMO - this is was trial with some big errors. For others here who do are in open relationship/swinging, etc life-styles. I'm betting that they too have had problems here and there, especially in the beginning. Swinging seems to enter lots of couple's lives as they get older and have been together to have a strong bond.
This isn't part two, because I've been busy with work and the wife and I have been doing a lot of talking and other things to repair the damage. We are both aware that a break down in communication was a major factor.
Part Two is still ongoing for me to type it out (even had a face-to-face talk with the young man (23yr old) last night, as he felt guilty of the unplanned drunk-sex with my wife). Part three is my gift project that I'm working as an apology.
I wanted to let you know that we're in a much better place today than 30 days ago. It was a fight that was needed. We love each other dearly and still plan and desire a lifetime relationship with each other. I didn't want you thinking that things got worse. It may be 1~4 days before I post part 2.
I share this is a way to help others who will find themselves in similar situations.
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