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Originally Posted by peeks2
Before we were married: 0
Since we've been married: 9 (soon to be 10)
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Interesting numbers. Your wife had sex only with you before marriage, but with a still-growing number of men after you and she married. And apparently you are happy with that situation!
My story is a bit different. My gf was a widow and I was divorced. We had been together for a few years, and were talking about getting married. She would frequently say something funny or suggestive about me having sex with other women, or her doing it with other men.
"Many a truth is said in jest," and I thought, from the frequency of her jokes, that there was a serious fantasy behind them. So one night I asked her directly how important it was to her to have sex with other men after we were married. She replied that it was not essential, but she would like to try it, if it was OK with me. After some serious talk, we agreed that we would continue to have sex only with each other as long as we were not married. But after we had been married for a couple of years, if we both felt secure enough at that time, then I would let her start by having sex with two men (not in a 3-some, but separately). I stressed that if she is to have sex with other men, I would prefer her to have two extra partners rather than only one, so as to minimize the risk of too much emotional attachment to the other man. We agreed to this plan, and continued to discuss our forthcoming wedding.
I wish I could report on how things worked out. Unfortunately she died tragically before the fantasy could be turned into reality.
But the interesting thing about the quoted story and mine is that monogamy may be essential during the premarital relationship, but after a marriage is well established the husband may be quite happy to have his wife fucked by other men.
An interesting psychological fact, don't you think?