Red flag #1 - The preacher (or any man) who convinces a woman to leave her children to start a new life is low-life ahole.
Red flag #2 - Any mother (or father) who leaves their kids to start a new life is a low-life scum... and never loved their children to begin with.
@JennyRed : Thanks for being one of the few females to hang with our group of kinksters. I do share some of the stories or photos I see here with my wife. I introduced her to open relationship, since I was used to always being that way - and yet she's getting more guys than I get women
But I like to ask this of women, even my friends when it comes up. Does your number (27) include blow jobs?
I asked this because MEN like to inflate their numbers, women like to reduce their numbers... so they omit oral and sometimes anal sex, go figure.