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Originally Posted by five hole
For the record, we have no kids. Kids were something we entertained over the early years of marriage, but it was something we liked, but NEVER loved. I do not think either of us regrets even one bit. A lot of it has to due with co-workers, friends, and family who for whatever reason experienced single parenting, didn't want kids, but thought they did, or were 'stuck' (there words, NOT mine) in a marriage because of kids. I love my wife and I know she loves me; besides I'm a big kid.
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That is pretty responsible for you two. Many people have kids because they are supposed or "oops". I like to tell people don't get married until you're over 25, don't have kids until you've been with each other for 4~5 years - built up a lot of romance and trust. (like date for 2 years, married for 2 years, then a kid or two).
I wasn't planning on having children with my wife, as she wasn't supposed to get pregnant - I was already 40 and have done my share of changing dirty diapers for EX-GFs of the past. So far, after 5 years together and 2 with a kid - while we can't quite do as much kinky - party things and have to have a baby sitter to do things, we've yet to feel we're STUCK with kids. And of course, with people like that - why do they have 2 or 3 of the little shit-factories?!
PS: Yeah, we posted our first baby shits on facebook!
Not really... but other things, that are cuter.