Update: We ended up going out after she got off work, a celebration with some friends at a gay club.
But while she was at work (before we had a chance to have a serious talk) she text me that she doesn't want a fight, want me mad at her, that she'll not got out with this friend.
We sat down and talked for about 30min. I went over it was the problem of NOT knowing whats going on, and expectations of her return home is what pissed me off. The outfit situation was not "hidden", reasoning was to not let family see, which I would have agreed. But this was me getting back to timely communication. Not when I'm trying to walk out the door.
The reason for the lateness is that they watched a movie and she feel asleep (okay, I can see that) - but I got back to her on communication. Which I think, still needs to be addressed more so.
We have some things to work out, but there are no fires. I would like for him to be able to take her to some places, that I am unable to do - so I need some one on one talk with him, if that is to continue in any way.
On a happy note, whose down for a photo of an open pussy, which I refer to as my cock warmer?