Well, lets see... I finally went to sleep after my 8:45a post. Woke up at 12, pissed off - no text or shit. I locate the guy's number which I should have saved on my phone and text him to "bring her ass home" A few minutes late, I call her... she does pick up, first I've heard any thing from here since 3am. I let her say a few words, I hang up and turn off the phone. My way of saying - I'm pissed.
Well, she came home about 12:45. Got in bed with me and the baby sleeping next to me. I gave her little feedback - not good one. She gave me a kiss, "I love you". We have family here, and how to explain why she is out late with another man - great. It takes me over an hour to fall asleep. I wake up to her in the bathtub getting ready for work.
She gets dress, sees I'm awake. Sit next to me in the usual fashion - I say nothing. We spend a few minutes looking at each other, she knows I am pissed off. She can't say sorry or anything. Says "I love you", my response is "okay" and she leaves. I soon send her a text "I can tell by your love from all the text messages you sent me last night" - which of course, there are NO text messages or phone calls.
It hit me, BD/SM type demos, lessons and tutoring are usually in the daytime or early evening - which is what I was told they were going for. I looked up the schedule, for which the time they would get there, would be past such things and it would be open to almost anything. It would be this "Friend" first time there. I find in the dirty laundry basket, a sexy school girl outfit that she's worn to the venue with me. But when she left, she was wearing street clothes. WHICH is typical for demos and lessons. Since I walked her out to the car, she/they didn't carry anything out... so she didn't want me to see?
Now, there is a chance she did this, fearing me being jealous. For which, doing shit like this CAUSES red flags to go up... but if she wanted to hide something, she could have easily put the outfit on the shelf.
So, now I'm going to have be tactical and see how honest she will be when I ask her about last night.
Remember, I don't care if they had sex... but being very late, no comm and shit... is a problem. Its breaking my trust.
captaintrips, what I say in words, no matter how much detail I put in, will not be enough to explain our feelings and relationship... You are right, this could be trending into bad territory. But I doubt it. I am not ALL things to her, and she is NOT all things to me... thats why we have an open relationship. Do I fuck her in the ass or fisting? No - but I am able to do so with other women. Hence, I'm generally okay with this arrangement.
I doubt she'll throw away our marriage and put our toddler into turmoil for another cock. I would dump ANY woman before let her effect my marriage and family.
When she gets off work, we'll have some serious talking to do and the rules will be in place.
I know she is hurting as I've never NOT tell her "I love you" when we part.
I like the open relationship life style... I enjoy having sex with other women and watching her have sex with others. But I'd shelve it keep our relationship intact.
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