Hi, i m new here, i have read several posts, i have search for the Cap but i m confused.

I will visit the Cap for few days with my wife. And i have two questions:
I m looking for the clothes we need. I know that all day we dont need clothes for the cafes, the shopping, the restaurants and the beach etc, I know that if we r planning to visit a swingers club or another dancing club my wife needs sexy revealing clothes (we have !!

) but i dont know for the other places what clothes she need. I saw that there are some tapas bars, wine bars, coctails bars and restaurants but i cant understand what is the right dress code for these places.
As i will not stay for longtime i dont want to risk a bad selection and my other question is about the best restaurants (we prefer meat-no fish please as i have allergy), best bars and places with sexy ambient

to drink a drink, to dance etc. I m waiting your suggestions please.
Thanks.