If this really is your wife she is beautiful and makes a great subject. I really can't say how I'd feel. As far as I know my wife and I do everything together. In fact the games were my idea.
What I would do is start talking to your wife about sex acts and try to work up to telling her what you accidentally found. Make it clear you were not snooping, just cleaning out her laptop. Decide how you really feel and go from there. Either way it appears these are games she enjoys. With or without you she will continue.
I know it would be a shock for most men. I also agree I'd most likely want her to continue but enclude me in her games. At least want her to tell me about them later.
Keep in mind she trusts whoever is playing around. My wife still will not allow bondage.
Good luck.
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