I would leave him out of it (for now). You and your wife need to communicate and set up boundaries if your not comfortable with what she is doing let her know but it is a two way street you have to respect the boundaries she imposes.
It sounds like your not comfortable be cause you feel she went out on a date let her know it's OK to go out and its OK to make a stop on the way home but not ok to go out with him.
I hope I helped or at least give you some food for thought
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