Welcome to OCC! As you will soon find out, the regulars here are a nice group of people (mostly guys, but ladies too). I really believe you will be treated well and kindly here by all of us. Anyone here who does not treat you with respect and kindness, either on the public forum will be dealt with publically on the forum. Anyone who gets rude or overly aggressive with you in private chat should be reported.
The moderators here do an awesome job and can (and will) help you any way they can. Again, welcome to our little community on the internet. We look forward to hearing more from you!
Mr. Nectcouple