My wife said that when she first started masturbating she was responding to getting wet getting turned on by watching Elvis Presley or other pop stars.
When we first met she didn't masturbate at all because she was getting plenty of orgasms from us having regular sex.
After a few years I started to encourage her because I found it a turn on but strangely she was reluctant in front of me at first. After a while she got to like it again and it became part of foreplay.
The only minor problem is that she can orgasm very quickly and intensely so I stay away from her clit at first and tease her pussy gently. Sometimes she can't stand it and starts fingering her clit so I move her hand away to delay her orgasm which adds to the excitement. She usually moves up to her nipples then.
She will sometimes masturbate to turn me on if we are out at the (quiet) beach or in the woods.
She sometimes need encouragement but once her finger gets on the button she doesn't like stopping.
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