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Originally Posted by Alicia269
I can certainly relate to your dilemma. I am a 50 something wife of 34 years and have the same situation. It has been that way since day one. He has his moments and some times are not as bad as others but I truly think it is a guy thing...Some time ago I played along and surfed the internet for pictures of guys (and girls) and couples and the whole nine yards and came to the conclusion guys don't feel the same as women when it comes to exclusivity.
Guess what I am trying to say is...As long as he treats you well, pays attention to you when he needs to (or you need him to) and you love each other...At the end of the day he is with you and you are the one he makes love to (or FUCKS) and if he isn't straying and fooling around, learn to accept it because they don't change and the more you try to change them, the more the resist and rebel...They are like teenage boys...
Good luck and hope things work out for you.
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ARE YOU KIDDING!!! Learn to accept it!?!?! REALLY!!!!!! A woman needs to be LOVED!! You are telling her to learn to be used!! Don't worry about the age... this woman can find a man that will truly LOVE her and cause her to feel needed rather than be a toy to be used and abused and then kicked to the curb by this jerk!! Men are NOT all the same any more than women are. She has a LOT BETTER choices than to endure life without the love she deserves in life! I say, pursue your options and if/when you find a good man, DUMP this turd ASAP!! Good Luck for future happiness! EVERY woman deserves a better life than you currently are enduring !
