It's not you
Guys will look at pictures and videos of naked girls (or guys). Period. It's how we are wired.
It doesn't mean you aren't pleasing him. He may be embarrassed to talk about some of the things that turn him on, or he may be so horny that he needs a quick release from time to time. He may do it to get ideas for things he wants to do with you or even so he can last longer when you are fooling around.
He's been doing it since before he met you, and will be doing it for as long as he is able.
It isn't an either/or thing.
The worst thing you can do is make it an issue. I suggest you have fun with it. Ask him to show you something that he thinks is really hot. Look at the porn together, not in a judgemental way, but have fun picking out a fantasy you can do together.
The hottest thing a guy can hear in this situation is his girl saying, "that looks like fun, let's try it!"
Whatever you do, don't ask him if he thinks a particular girl is hotter than you. That will totally kill the mood.
Good luck
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