We're from Alabama, now in Tennessee... She grew up in Alabama, but I grew up in the Pittsburg area, we met in Alabama where I stayed after college ( u of A ). We were both swingers, and met at a mutual friends swinger party.. so that should tell you something about the numbers?
I believe, she was with 140 guys before me , (she was 28 when we met), and since then being together as married swingers, I think its about 220 now? We are both around 40 yo now.
So far its been alot of fun w/ no complaints.