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Originally Posted by SpyStrip
For some who are posting here about how wrongful I am at spying on women when they are nude, I don't take you seriously.
There's are MANY voyeur threads here at One Click, usually beginning with "Unaware" or "Voyeur", etc., and NONE of you who have criticized my conduct have gone on their threads, WHERE THEY SHOW ACTUAL PHOTOS OR VIDEO OF THEIR VOYEURISM, and made the same comments to them.
NONE OF YOU.
I'm simply dismissing your statements of how wrongful I am as some kind of childish game you're playing out.
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I don't think I care to be brushed aside so easily. I can't speak for others but what gets me about your action is your betrayal of the trust that should be present between people in a relationship.
So if I happen upon my partner enjoying a private session with a toy, I might peek through the door and voyeuristically enjoy the action. But if I invited my buddy to watch with me that would be wrong in my book. Because my partner could reasonably expect that I would not do that.
If I am out gardening and just happen to spot my neighbour sunbathing topless, I can legitimately enjoy the happenstance. If I set out to spy on my neighbour in the hope that I'll catch her sunbathing topless, that would be wrong in my book. Both situations are voyeuristic but the intent or lack thereof makes a huge difference.
And you, SpyStrip, from your account took your actions without the consent of your partner and that is what is the downer for me.
I freely admit to enjoying the verbal voyeurism offered by this website. But a significant, although small, proportion of the messages leave me thinking that it would be better for all of us if the writer were behind bars.