I know one guy balled my wife (before we met). She planned to marry him, so she let him knock her up. Then, her parents blew their lids and forced her to have an abortion. According to her, by the time he knew, the baby was dead.
She still had hopes for him, but when she had a party at her home and caught him trying to ball another girl in her (my wife-to-be's) bed, she blew up and dumped him. It was when she was on the rebound that I met her.
I know she and a girlfriend played around with an ex-sailor at college, before all of this. She claims all she did was give the guy a few blowjobs (although the girlfriend apparently screwed the guy), but I just don't know. Not worth pressing her on it, as we've been married almost 40 years, so whatever happened before I appeared on her radar is irrelevant.
Funny thing is that the guy who knocked her up was a year her junior. After him, she swore off younger guys. When we met, she thought I was in my 30's, but I was actually 19 and more than two years her junior. By the time she got my age straight, we were both in love with each other, and that was that!
After we got serious, she swears she never slept with anyone else. I believe her. We both are very serious about our promises. She knows how much I was burned by my mother and I know how much losing her baby hurt her, so neither one of us has ever wanted to hurt the bond we have.
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