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Originally Posted by Onestopfuckshop
Bwoy, this Swinging, Sharing thing not as simple as it sounds..sounds complicated..at end of the day, its still all about power..have more of it, get what you want..if women are in control, it goes to shit, generally. Man is supposed to command enough respect so that even in this situation, the woman would have to think twice before doing anything behind her man`s back. I would try change it around by giving her what she seems to be getting from them that she is not getting from me...make demands, set boundaries etc..if she feels that are no consequences..it can get worse before getting better.
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No it's not about power, as others have said, it's about communication, respect and having fun. The wife and I have a code phrase we use when either of us spot someone that we are interested in, a simple no is the end of the discussion. We don't go behind each other and we communicate.
It's a difficult thing at the start, there has to be a trust built up, hell at one point we had a friend living with us while she sorted out her life, for some reason (well ok, she is exactly my type) the wife decided that I was interested and she didn't want that, a little argument broke out, with our friend there, it ended up with me explaining very clearly that I had zero interest in our friend, but her sister was a different story....So I ended up getting the cold shoulder from the two women in the house
But, it served as a lesson to us both that communication is key.