There are lots of "professional photographers" out there, that are anything - but. Not to say that even pros don't use their talents to still get tail. I used to do a lot of photography of things, places, people and women. I've only had a few shoots result in nudes, no sex. I even did a few shoots with a woman who I dated a few times, to go along with a hobby-photographer who wanted her to model (she didn't know him - but I did). I would bring my own camera, let me be the primary.
She did sex poses in public places, much of it is art quality. Some almost nudes. I got some great shots, did some directing while not trying to hurt his ego. His photography was amateur but his choice of outfits (which he provided some) and locations were excellent. I remember talking about her in a sexual way some weeks later, looking at photos of her in a thong. This other guy was "insulted" that I would refer to in such a way. HELLO, she's got a thong and her legs are open?!
Anyhow... back to the original point. The shoot with Tracy was fine, she was in control of what could happen and trust/open relationship. She could have kept it PG-13 if she wanted too. But the one with SteveZR1 is a NO-NO and could be dangerous. I know of girls who had no-consenting sex with "photographers" by getting dunk or Cosbyed (drugged). One such clown (of most likely many) has his work on some pro-modeling/photography sites. His "work" is shit... its women semi-nude & nudes at various locations... good enough to attract naive young women because he doesn't charge, which he uses to build his portfolio - to get more women.
Ladies (anyone who is reading this)... whenever ANY photographer wants you to model, and he says you CANNOT bring an escort/chaperone or friend (usually a guy) or boyfriend. I've done dozens of shoots with BF or male or female friends and they NEVER distracted the work. I've also have most of them sign waivers. If you are legit, you're not going to things that can effect your business or future clients.
Again, if he says "NO Boyfriend ALLOWED" - Its not a legit shoot. Now, if you are cool with doing the "club" thing and doing gangbangs or having nude modeling for fun, etc - do it safely. Make sure someone knows where you are going.
I'm a kinkster. I've done photography of people having sex. I'm open to people doing any kind of consenting sex with other adults. I'm a strong believer that all parties involved are having fun and consented. People have taken photos and videos of me in the buff and having sex - which I have said "You got any more?"
Glad that for the most part, Steve's EX did become more open minded and it didn't progress any further... if it had, she would have felt dirty and likely done the OPPOSITE things afterwards.
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