Hey folks,
justified through my experiences with mixed saunas in Germany from more than a decade, I’d like to make a contribution to this thread.
I’ve experienced ENF moments with girls becoming red in the face and trying to cover up as well as rather obscene exhibitions of the pink bits in public.
I go out for swimming and sauna on a regular basis. I do appreciate the health aspect, the workout, the relaxation etc. when spending my time in the spa. Nevertheless, since it’s all mixed sauna and relaxation areas, I must admit that it is indeed pretty enjoyable to be in a room together with a varying number of nude women. Sometimes it’s “hard enough”
to keep your thoughts and eyes off the topic. I guess the majority of males would agree that sporting a boner in a public sauna or relaxation area is a most embarrassing situation...
(yes, it has happened to me and none of the women around made a big deal out of it. The “worst” reaction was by one woman who left the sauna and went into another one instead –
so maybe we just tend to worry too much about what other people may or may not think about us…) Anyway, the thing that I have been noticing for years is that some women seem to consciously “play the game” - and this fascinates me.
According to what has already been mentioned here, some of you have gained similar experiences in mixed saunas. I mean, there are situations in which women make themselves comfortable - either sitting or lying - with their legs spread right in front of a male, despite an empty sauna room. I’ve already been in the position myself and have also witnessed it quite often. I can also confirm what
1guyinholland mentioned earlier in this thread; there are women in the sauna pulling their knees to their breasts while lying on the back. May it be some stretching practice or breathing exercise… I don’t know, but they just let you see everything. Why would any girl do that in front of a stranger? I’m pretty sure they know exactly what this is doing to a man - after all, they don’t live on Mars. They must have heard about erections, they know that getting hard in public saunas is considered indecorous - consequently they know that they get you into a scr*pe by putting you at risk of getting a hard on in public.
Please don’t get me wrong in that. I don’t wanna say women in saunas are constantly looking for mating opportunities; this isn’t even my impression. My impression is that they rather enjoy the teasing, and that it’s much more about the guy’s reaction than about intercourse. Sooner or later the woman will always check out the people next to her and, based on my experience, it never takes too long until she catches the first guy staring at the things she’s showing him. Of course there are women (often the younger ones) who would close their legs when realizing they’re just being stared at. Others seem perfectly ok with it and may even "perform" moves like the one mentioned above, fully aware of the onlooker(s).
One time, a very attractive young brunette positioned herself across from me on the sauna bench and began stretching her arms over her head and to the sides as if it was some kind of workout – no other people in the sauna. She repeatedly “caught” me looking at her firm breasts without taking any offense.
I also remember one blond woman (probably in her 30s) standing next to my lounger in the relaxation area and beginning to rub a skin lotion all over her nude body. She knew that I was watching her – there was in fact no chance of not looking at her other than closing my eyes. She didn’t make eye contact but checked out my privates more than once. There have been many sauna women over the years giving unashamed and almost obscene stares at male genitals.
Latest example of the “games” women play in mixed saunas happened a fortnight ago. I was at my favourite spa, close to my hometown, with an entire “textile-free” floor and five different saunas (varying temperatures, aromas, etc). I went there on a weekday for it’s not that crowded then. Entering the first sauna, it’s always like
Forrest Gump says “you never know what you’re gonna get“. I took a look around, realized there were only two grannies in there, rolled out my towel and found myself a place to lie down. After a while the two elderly ladies left and I was alone in the room. Hearing some footsteps approaching from outside, I was hoping for some nice female assets. The door opened and a couple (dark-haired man, blond girl, about 25yo) came in. She, an attractive girl with medium tits and clean-shaven pussy, was heading towards the wooden bench one level above me. As the two climbed up there, I was already offered a great view on her rosy inner labia, which was a turn-on for sure. They were sitting on the bench then, looking down on me lying completely naked on my towel. After a bit of giggling here and there the two started kissing - pretty intensely. I could see all her pink bits from below and she wasn’t shy to make eye contact with me from time to time. When she started rubbing her boyfriends thighs he repeatedly pushed away her hands, whereupon she would start giggling again. It was clear she was very much enjoying herself, putting her boyfriend at risk of getting a boner (-and me too!). She gave me some cheeky grins all the way through and totally knew she was in a predominant position. She continued teasing and bantering her boyfriend for a while up until a group of elderly people invaded the sauna.
Throughout the years as a sauna enthusiast, I’ve experienced situations in which both young and mature women’s behaviour has clearly shown that they were somehow “testing out” and trying to trigger reactions. I pretty much like the idea that once people have stripped off their clothes there is some connection between them, even if they don’t know each other.
As for the mixed shower / locker room question, I can say that many people seem a bit shy when they’ve just entered the spa, but become more generous before they're leaving. When I went there the last time, I had already been queuing up with a dark-haired woman, a little older than I am, in front of the counter. When we went into the lockers then, she took her swimsuit and bathrobe out of her bag and vanished into the changing cubicle. My disappointment got worse when I realized that time was running up and I hadn’t even seen her anywhere on the sauna floor. At the end of the 3 hour interval that both of us had booked before, she happened to enter the lockers while I was changing and she saw me completely nude. Standing in front of her locker, next to mine, she started peeling out of her wet swimsuit and let me see everything this time. Funny thing was that she wrapped a towel around her waist before putting on her panties, although I had already seen her trimmed pussy. Quite nicely, the next thing she put on wasn’t her bra but her denim jeans, so, on top of that, I could get a glimpse of her, standing there topless in denim jeans with pretty pointy nipples before I left. That was quite nice of her
