Not a huge deal for most, but my wife had been changing into pajamas with the lights on and curtains wide open in our upstairs bedroom while you can see into the neighbor's upstairs bedroom and the dude is sitting on his bed watching stuff on his laptop, facing our direction. She did it for about a week and I pointed out he could see her and she said she didn't care...until one day his girlfriend was over and my wife saw her undress and then she realized that if she saw the girlfriend take her top off, then the dude could see my wife.
Now our curtains are closed.
I told her I was confused and she admitted she liked the idea that he may or may not be looking at her, but when she saw the girlfriend take her top off, she thought of me seeing the girlfriend (I wasn't there and didn't see any of this) and she realized the reality sunk in of being seen and she didn't like it after all.
The best part is I have seen the girlfriend undress about 3 times just this early winter but my wife thinks I haven't seen a thing. I have only seen her topless from the back, though. I am sure she knows people can see but isn't too daring yet. I don't find her attractive so I haven't tried to see more, though.
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