holy shit dude, just found this thread and read the whole thing. this is crazy, CRAZY!!!!!
there is no way i could be hotter right now. personally, i would love if my wife was that adventurous, it would turn me on beyond belief. are you jealous of the neighbor? if you are, end this now! if not, you need to make sure its about you two experimenting with an alternate sex life and her doing it to excite you, not just to fuck the new guy, but to do it to expand your sexual horizons together. if you're not jealous, then go for it. just start by trying some stuff. i think if you aren't comfortable with her doing it when you aren't there, then have her do it and keep you informed with texts as it happens. for example, if she was to say, "i'm opening the curtains and i can see him looking, should i slip out of my clothes?"
if you answer her, 'Yes," (and please do, for all of us) then see where it goes and how it makes you feel.
if you're comfortable then move forward. tell her you want to control it, then text her back something like, "lay back and play with yourself, can he see you?
she may be like yes
"does it turn you on?" ask her and roll with it until you're not comfortable then you'll know. it sounds like she will be good with it and it could move your relationship to new heights.
you may find you like it, i do, and i would if katie (my wife) was doing it.
if you find you like it, skip the drugged thing, too deceptive, and make it more fun. what fun would it be having a threesome with your wife if she can't even move because she's acting like she's knocked out. play a game or something, strip poker, or one available on line.
i play a game called monogamy with my wife that is fun and starts slow. you would share some personal info from answering cards, give little kisses, there is a remove a piece of clothing space, etc.
when she got a card, she would do it to both of you. when you guys got cards, you would do things to her. it builds up, gets sexier as you strip, and dirtier as you go.
it would be a good barometer for you as you could stop it if it started making you uncomfortable.
just make sure you lay down the rule that you both stop and out he goes if either of you wants to stop.
personally, i hope you like it, and she will be doing sexy things to you both, and you will both be doing sexy things to her. who knows???? could be fun
sounds like fun to me, wish i was you, or your neighbor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
keep it fun, and safe, the fact he's talking about drugs, and drugging his wife makes me kinda nervous. maybe you should find a new guy. oh, i'm available if you need me
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but really, maybe it should be with someone you don't know.
if you asked her that and she was unhappy with the idea, then she just wants to fuck the neighbor, and you'll know it