A group of us were sitting around in a dorm room, about half of us male and half female (This was around 40 years ago, so I don't remember exactly how many of each were there!). Most of the girls were friends of the girlfriend of one of my buddies, and she'd invited them to come around.
One cute, mousey girl and I started talking and hit it off pretty well. I saw her perk up her ears when I mentioned I'd broken up with my girlfriend back home, and when I excused myself to go back to my dorm room (I had a single room; I like my privacy) to get a book for one of my other buddies, she tagged along. Very quickly, we were exchanging kisses. After a few minutes, she asked if I wanted her to stay the night. So she did and we had an interesting night.
It turned out she was pretty insecure and really needed a lot of attention. At first, it was fun -- she'd do whatever I asked, such as going bra-less, but her insecurity really got on me. My previous girlfriend was very self-confident, and I missed that.
I wound up reconciling with my previous girlfriend (now my wife of almost 40 years). When I tried to explain that to Emmaline, she wasn't angry. Instead, since my girlfriend was in NJ and the college was in Vermont, Emmaline wanted me to be her boyfriend when I was in Vermont, leaving my wife-to-be for when I was in NJ. I'm not that duplicitous, though. Might have been fun, but I'm just no good at lying!
So, total elapsed time from exchanging first names to getting our clothes off was probably no more than two hours.
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