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I feel your pain. Both of you. LOL i was texting a trust friend as well that I have known since college. We have share some nude photos of our wives, but nothing too crazy. I had one ready to send to him and realized that I had it ready to go to someone else. It would have been a complete disaster. Fortunately for me, the text will not send, even with an attachment, until you choose send it. (almost shit my pants)

What I have learned from this: Never keep several names on your messaging list at one time when you sending nude photos or in a conversation that you would not want to share with anyone else. i am not talking about contact list, but having all the texts open of those that you have been texting to. That way, you can only send a text to the right person.
So when texting porn or other subjects, just keep one name open and no others.

Never send nude photos or hot topics when driving or on the phone with someone. Too much opportunity to mess up.

Always store your nude photos on a flash drive that you can hide away and never leave them on your phone, even if you have your phone locked. Someone can take out the chip and use photo recovery software to see your photos. or they can accidentally find you photos if they pick up your phone.

Another precaution to be completely safe: The Best thing i ever did was to buy another memory chip for my phone. (so I have two chips to use) One i use when i know i am going to take nudes of my wife or hot video clips. Then i take it out of my phone and store it away, Then i replace it with the chip for my regular photos. Sounds like a lot of work? Well i can be, but you will never have the fear factor or worry again. Anyone can pick up your phone too and you don't have to worry anymore. Hope this helps.