Wow, so much to say and yet nothing at the same time.
First, thank you to all the comments and suggestions. Before my wife and I even decided to meet up with her, I explained my interest and was completely truthful concerning why I wanted to meet (the truth is I was more curious and wanted to see how she was doing). Then my wife asked what she looked like and I showed her. My wife is not into girls per say, but has found a select few very "doable". Jenny was added to the list.
My reservations where because I really didn't know what I wanted and played out the evening a few dozen times in my head with what could and might happen. Everything from leaving after a 1/2 hour to my wife getting mad and us leaving after 5 minutes. I really had no idea what to expect, but my wife was curious to know about the girl before her and prompted me (or should I say us) to get together.
Of all the outcomes that I thought might happen, the ending result was nothing I could've predicted. We sat, drank, ate, and shared some stories. There lots of laughs, fun, and even a moment that both girls were very emotional on concerning me and both had tears. However, we all walked away happy. I think more than anything that was key.
This coming weekend we agreed to meet up again at a bar/restuarant and laugh so more. Details to follow because I asked the question and you all provided me with some ideas and concerns. I just think I owe the onus of responsiblitiy to provide you with the details if I ask for advise. Maybe that is me though.
For the record, we have no kids. Kids were something we entertained over the early years of marriage, but it was something we liked, but NEVER loved. I do not think either of us regrets even one bit. A lot of it has to due with co-workers, friends, and family who for whatever reason experienced single parenting, didn't want kids, but thought they did, or were 'stuck' (there words, NOT mine) in a marriage because of kids. I love my wife and I know she loves me; besides I'm a big kid.
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