Question
I hate to bring it up, but do you and your wife have kids? Because if you do, the stakes are so much higher. Going into a situation like we are all imagining, you and your wife might both think it sounds like fun, but sometimes after an event like swinging or a threesome, one or both of you has a harder time dealing with what has happened than that person imagined. And if you split up because of it, your kids will suffer, and that will increase your feelings of guilt over the whole thing.
Of course, I don't know you or your wife or really anything, but I just thought I would add this. As a parent, I have definitely not done things I would have loved to do, with the welfare of my kids in mind. I'm sure every parent on this board has, as well.
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