Fivehole I believe often our brains and hearts see and think of things that may only be parts of our fantasies, our dreams, and what we'd like to see happen in that fantasy world. That doesn't mean the other person in this relationship are even having these dreams.
Perhaps all they want to do is meet and have a good time while talking about the past.Then again maybe they have even wilder ideas of things they'd like to do to rekindle old romances and old dreams. As mentioned, meet, have a good tme, respect your own wife's feelings, and see what happens.
It ain't easy loving someone and not hurting them. I guess all I'm trying to say is take it easy but don't be afraid to follow your instincts.
As I sit and type I sometimes know exactly what I want to say in words. Our fingers don't always write what our hearts are thinking so the words become mixed and confusing, like this !
|