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This can be hard for people who are new to teasing to understand because they want to make their partner happy, and they might be afraid that telling him "No Cumming!" isn't going to make him happy. But remember that giving in to his need to cum when he asks does not create any tease at all. It's helpful to remember this fact especially when he is trying to convince you in 'that moment' when he is close to his orgasm.

Some have said that, the point in time where you take the control of his orgasm away from him, is the point in time he has been hoping for all along. It's the point at which you over-ride his immediate desires and you make things unpredictable for him. Once you do this a few times you will see how much it increases the sexual tension between the two of you and where it starts to get fun