[ModelT-MsDollie]

A year has past since tinamarie last posted. Perhaps she no longer checks in. Last on 09-14-2013 11:30 PM
She seemed to have joined only to get this off her mind.
Her story is much different than others here. I can see her reasoning for not telling her daughter. There is no purpose to it. I also see that the family is very happy by the outcome.
I also see where my wife and I were very lucky when we spent many nights in bars and strip clubs doing very much the same. She'd often go in ahead of me and I'd later sit at the bar and watch guys flirt and fondle. All harmless fun. The difference was I was always watching and there in case someone wanted to take my wife outside.
The husband getting drunk was the first mistake. Tinamarie going outside was not right but I can understand doing it while expecting her husband to walk out anytime.
From then on I can see no way my wife would have gotten in our van with a young stranger and had intercourse. By not stopping the young man she did consent. Tinamarie did not need her husband to say no or yell out for help. Both partners were wrong and both paid the consequenses.
For better or worse, things did turn out great for them. It took a lot of nerve for tinamarie to write her stories and reply to the many comments. Others can learn from our mistakes and our games.
We had three children before my wife was fixed due to other problems after our daughter was born. Still we also ended up with a fourth child when we adopted our first grandson. People can not always plan everything.
I just hope timamarie and her husband continue to have a happy marriage. I also think they should try their game again under more strict rules just for fun.