I see my high school girlfriend (class of 1987) all the time. We are still friends to this day and we share the same core group of friends. I have shared some of our experiences here on OCC. I would guess the last time I saw her naked was skinny dipping on a camping trip about 15 years ago. Most gatherings now include all of our kids so bathing suits only lately, she still looks great to me. She is on second husband now, another friend of ours from high school so he is aware of our past, just not all the steamy details.
My wife knows all about the ex girlfriend and my past but it did take her some time to feel comfortable hanging out in the same group as her. It helped that my other friends made her feel welcome to the group right away though and the fact the ex was seeing someone (future 1st husband) also. Wife even knows about the stories I have shared here and others I haven’t yet.
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