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The erotic mind is a visually-oriented mind. It is part of the reason that pornography and sexy images are so popular and well, arousing. It is also the reason why a large, strategically placed mirror can certainly enhance your sexual play.

Having couple sex in front of a mirror not only enables us to explore our voyeuristic or exhibitionist curiosities in the privacy of our own home, it also allows us watch our sensual movements at angles that we would not be able to see otherwise.

If you are a woman and the idea of exposing yourself in the most intimate of acts leaves you shying away from mirror sex; relax. There are ways to enjoy this erotic experience without your self-confidence taking a hit.

Try engaging in a little solo sex in front of a mirror to help build confidence and appreciate your beautiful femaleness.
Mirrors only reflect 80 percent of incident light, so choose low lighting or candles to set the mood. Your body will be attractively displayed in a contrast of light and shadows.
If you are especially self-conscious about a particularly body part, wear some provocative lingerie to cover up your concern. It will only add to the titillation and give you an extra boost of confidence.
Understand that most men will not even notice your cellulite and jiggly bits and those that do actually find it rather sexy. Trust me; men are more concerned about pleasing you and not whether you have love handles or a little Buddha belly.
If you find that during mirror sex you become distracted by your less than perfect body parts then simply shift your gaze away from yourself to your partner only. Watch him in the mirror and see how much he is enjoying the experience. Look at his facial expressions as he becomes more and more aroused. After a few moments, focus on yourself again. The more you allow yourself to enjoy the view and the accompanying sensations, the more difficult it will be for your inner critic to ruin the experience.
A curved back will make you look ten pounds thinner so arch your back while in the women-on-top position.
Remember that the secret to great mirror sex is not to focus all of your attention on the mirror for the entire time but to sneak a peek now and then when you are feeling especially sensual and sexy.

Now that you are more comfortable in front of a mirror here are a few sexual ideas you can try.