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If we are honest, the vagina has an almost magical influence over some very special men. They have a natural understanding and appreciation of the petal-soft folds of her womanhood that is lost on others of their gender. For them, the apex of a woman’s thighs is paradise and the enchantment only continues to grow with each encounter. Like art or music, one’s sensitivity to it is instinctive but the full enjoyment is only wholly realized through time and with practice. Many women can remember their astonishment when it first dawned on them that the man applying his mouth to her warm, dark haven was lapping, licking and sucking away in pure sexual ecstasy. In the same way, every cunnilingus aficionado recalls the first time he was completely lost to the various sensations of this most intimate of sex acts. And once he experiences that, he desires it again and again.

These cunnilingus connoisseurs have a unique talent and a special affinity with the female vagina. Men who do not have this connection cannot understand those who do and those who do have it assume it to be something that can be easily learned. But like any specialist, it is a unique aspect of that individual which cannot be transferred to another. A true connoisseur of cunnilingus when locked onto his lover’s pulsating core generates a strong erotic circuit. These luscious vaginal sensations then flow throughout his body until he feels what his partner feels. Neurologists tell us that the mouth consists of more nerve connections to the brain than any other part of the body. Many of us pay little attention to them but a cunnilingus connoisseur is aware of them all.

Cunnilingus aficionados have learned to let themselves go and be in the moment. They both crave and savour the smell, taste and texture of a woman’s passion-moistened depths. They may enjoy having their head caressed but not held for they prefer not to have their movements restrained. For most of them, the mutual pleasuring found in the 69 sex position is merely a distraction. These special men prefer to lose themselves in their work and are troubled by any interruption. Often the vaginal nectar that their talented mouth can coax from a woman is enough to arouse and excite them. Yes, these cunnilingus connoisseurs are indeed a unique breed, worthy of a moniker much more illustrious than “muff diver” or any other base term that they are currently saddled with.