My ex was a very sexual woman, with lots of experience before we met. Especially at our age (40's). When we met and later married, she had several men friends that I met too, and knew that they had fucked many times before I came along. It was fun knowing that their dick had been in her too. Years later when we divorced, the Judge who signed the decree, was another guy who had fucked her many times
I had already heard about him, and he sure did a double take when he saw her name
One such friend, who I actually got to know well, since we shared a common background in the military, and even worked together for a while. This fellow and my ex had first met when they were 5 or 6 and eventually became sexual around the age of 13 or 14. They still would go at it, when the opportunity happened, over the years. They never tried to hide anything from me about when they fucked. I was hoping that I might get to join them or even just watch, but they explained it just wouldn't work for them. This I understood and accepted. Her friend and I had some interesting conversations about fucking my ex, her other exploits and his. Even though he was married too, he was always finding some woman to fuck. Some times when my ex fucked him, she would get home right away and have me fuck her too, or eat her out, while his cum was still in her. Just sorry that I couldn't go in right after he pulled out. My ex did tell me that if I wanted to do a 3some with another woman and our friend, that she didn't mind at all. Never managed to pull that off.
Beyond that, my ex also had a thing for older guys and happened to meet, and became friends with one nice guy. When I first met him, he was very surprised that I didn't mind her having a 'boyfriend'. In time he asked her if she would like to accompany him on some overnight business trips, all in the state. She asked me and I said I was OK and have a good time. So, once and a while they would hit the road and have a great time, as I knew they would, and they got some good fucking in too. It really blew his mind when she told him that I knew and approved of all they were doing. Later, while his wife was visiting her sister, he had my ex come over to his house. She went over with just sweat pants and a top on, nothing else, I knew she would be there a while, and she was. There were a few others that she 'dated' and it always involved some good fucking, besides a nice date. During this time, I had a couple women friends that I 'dated' and had a good time with too.
This is the kind of 'swinging' that her and I liked to do. Not just fuck and that's all, but to actually go on a full blown date and let nature take it from there. Whether we double dated, and swapped for the date, or went out separately it was fun either way. I even dated one of her sisters a few times, though the sister and I decided it was best if we didn't fuck. My ex had another sister that she wanted me to fuck, and we got along good, but she just didn't turn me on. Her husband had a 'dead battery'
At one point I had a good job opportunity about 120 miles away, and she thought it would work out, with me living there and finding some pussy too. And then come home every week or two and we could have a fun time while I was home. That way, she had some free time, and yet we were still married and had fun together too. That in the end didn't happen, and we did split, but for totally different reasons. During all this time, she also got to know my father, who was obviously older, and they seemed to really like each other. My mother died years earlier and he never remarried. I was kind of hoping that she might get him interested... They did stay in contact for a few years after we split. I did tell her, that I hoped she kept seeing her friend who took her on the trips and I gathered that she did.
I know that this is most likely going further than most could imagine, even many swingers. It happens that my ex came from a very sexual family. Her mother had fucked all of the son-in-laws, but me. She died a year before I got into the picture.
It was a very fun time....