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Old 02-05-2014, 08:40 AM
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Default Follow your gut.

If there is any doubt then there is no doubt. Wait till you have someone you are more comfortable with. maybe someone not so experienced.


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Originally Posted by Gabberzz View Post
A few weeks ago I logged onto a 'seeking local sex' site. Not one of the scam ones with fake profiles but one with actual verified people. I verified myself and put up an anonymous photo of myself with some profile information.

I sent out a couple of pings and got interest from someone in a neighbouring town - sadly once we'd exchanged photos she stopped responding! - guess she didn't like what she saw, but oh well.

Anyway - I got another response from a 'married but looking' woman who replied,'go on, you've got my interest.'
Since then we've been chatting daily and after exchanging all the usual pleasantries, sexy questions photos and so on she all but invited me to ask to meet. Tonight may be that night as both our partners are away and we tentatively agreed we may be able to meet if the planets align.

The only problem is that it turns out that her husband and she are very experienced swingers and by the sounds of it she's 'seen it all'. She has assured me that she still wants to meet me despite my nerves as she wants to meet me because I'm fun 'not just because you want to put your dick in me'.

I asked her why as a swinger she wants to meet men on her own - she says she wants to be with someone she chose at her own pace and not someone she ends up fucking after seeing a photo of their dick an hour beforehand.

I've seen her Facebook profile, swinging profile on another site and it backs up everything she's told me - this seems 100% legit.

I'm feeling somewhat intimidated by the prospect and am almost hoping that she can't make it as the arrangement was only tentative at best.
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