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Originally Posted by Gabberzz
But maybe you're right. Maybe the fun isn't worth the risks.
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Don't let some repressed bell-ringer shake you off your initial goal.
What's the problem? You joined a site to find someone, and you found another person who also joined this site. Now you wonder if they're real or if it's a risk or a scam or PANIC FREAK OUT DOUBT AND SHAME!
Meet her. You might get along. Swingers are people too, and your question "Why would a swinger meet men alone?" whows that you haven't been in this long. There are a TON of reasons people do things, some scary and some totally reasonable. You can't tell the difference till you meet them and make your own judgment. So go for it! Don't expect anal on the first date (i.e. any specific outcome or that you have to get off for the night to be a success).
If you haven't met anyone yet, you're hardly "in too deep."
Take a deep breath, and perhaps a klonopin, and take a leap of faith. No one says on their death-bed "I wish I avoided putting myself out there..."