It certainly is a complicated thing. I guess the simplest answer for me is - I like looking at women, I love tits, I love women in sexy and revealing clothes, I love seeing things that aren't intended to be seen. It's the voyeuristic and exhibitionist part of me. I figure if I enjoy looking at women, why not give others something to look at too? For me it can be a tough balance to achieve, I have no problems with my wife being topless at the beach, wearing sexy clothes, having her thong show, give the occasional nip slip, going braless or without panties, etc. - I love all that stuff! I also have no issue with guys checking my wife out either. But at the same time, we are not into swinging or wife sharing (Not that I have anything against it or anyone who likes to do that, it's just not something we are into). Sharing pics of my wife or encouraging her to dress sexy or flash in public can easily cause confusion for some people, many people think that because I'm willing to show my wife off, that I want to share her as well, and that's not the case.
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