I saw photos of my wife's friend's boobs, but I kind of tricked her. The friend had just gotten divorced. My wife told me how the friend then joined an online dating service to look for a new husband. This got me thinking. I went online and started looking for her. Found her on eharmony. This was too good an opportunity to pass up. But I couldn't communicate with her unless I paid money to sign up. Couldn't dare use the family credit card, but I have a little side business online that sells things and makes about $5k a year. Nothing really, but I have a separate credit card for the biz. I used that to pay for eharmony knowing my wife never looks at those charges.
I then started a dialog with the woman. It was really interesting in terms of control. I knew her in real life for many years. So I knew what buttons to push. I always viewed her as a bit envious of wealthy people, so I mentioned I lived in this very fancy neighborhood a few towns away. I knew that would get her going. She is also very much into working out, so my pretend ID started talking about all the times I work out. All of this was fake of course.
After about five back and forth emails I starting asking her about what went wrong with her marriage. I prodded about her sex life. She went into quite a bit of detail. She said she would mostly give him blow jobs and he'd fall asleep. She said she had masturbated for him and did anal with him a few times. She said they once had sex on a beach in the dark. They also had sex in their backyard. She thinks she's telling this to a stranger and meanwhile I've been in her back yard. LOL.
Ultimately she wanted to meet in person. I held out long enough to convince her to send me a picture of her boobs. Then my conscious kicked in and I recognized what a complete jack ass I was being. This woman was a good person She had children. And here I was getting her to send me a private picture through sheer manipulation. Pretty shitty thing to do. So after she sent the boob picture I sent a quick note saying she seemed really great but I decided not to pursue a relationship right now. I never contacted her again online, although she has been over to my house a number times since then. I'm always super nice to her because I still feel guilty, but not guilty enough to erase the picture of her boobs from my hard drive.