Totally agree with Videoboy – very good points you raised. I’m 100% with you on the stranger policy – when we were considering the ‘who?’ element we always arrived back at the same place where men we knew were concerned; the con’s always outweighed the pro’s. Like Videoboy pointed out, the prospect of running into the guy locally would make her uncomfortable – the consequences could cause her embarrassment, especially if the guy blabbed, which I’m sorry to say is probable. The rumour mill quickly ensures that family, friends and work colleagues all know what she’s been doing. If your wife’s a sl*t it can work fine playing close to home, but if she’s your average respectable, devoted wife (like mine) she can’t be subjected to those kind of risks. Protecting her reputation is vital.
A good friend of mine did fuck my first wife – but the circumstances were unusual. We had him round to dinner the night before he emigrated to a new life thousands of miles away and it happened then. She wouldn’t have done it if he hadn’t been leaving the country next day – and I wouldn’t have wanted her to. This was the only time anyone we knew has been involved.
Again, I agree with the vacation plan. It’s worked beautifully several times for us. The whole ambience of a holiday is tailor-made for achieving the objective. My wife wears things on holiday that she wouldn’t dream of wearing at home – I buy her ‘holiday’ mini-skirts which she wears gladly, even knowing that when she leans over the breakfast bar the men are checking out her panties! (Can’t persuade her to leave them off!!
) She dresses and behaves like she’s available – all part of the search for a suitable male and a far cry from the conservatively dressed housewife who plays the organ in chapel on Sunday mornings!