Do you have any regrets about getting your wife involved in the situation to start of
Just having a quick look the age of consent here in Australia is 16 and in Germany it is 14, there are stipulations applying in both countries, so all is well that way I think.
So how did the full swap come about, under what circumstances did it happen? And was it with a couple around your age own age?
When you say you played several times during your 14 year marriage was it the both of you playing together?
Jealousy, we have met some couples in our time where the other husband could not handle seeing his wife enjoying herself with another guy, once it actually became violent which was very upsetting.
Going back in the 80’s when we were really enjoying a very open marriage I hooked up with some guys who were into advertising in local sex papers that they were a group of guys for gang bangs for couples and women who were interested, we had a set of rules where one of the guys that did the organising would have to speak to the woman on the phone to confirm that she was a willing partner in the activity, come the night when the action started a few of the husbands could not stand seeing their wife enjoying herself with a group of other guys and talked their wife into leaving the party, we called it the talk all week to get the wife to attend, and all night to get her to leave syndrome.
My wife went with six of the seven guys in the group but only in threesomes with myself and another guy at the one time, she is not into gang bangs at all, I have seen her do things with other guys that she never did with me but it never really bothered me.
As for your X wife doing other guys when you were not around, what was the problem with that if you had an open marriage?
Do you have any regrets about getting your wife involved in the situation to start off with? Or do you think she was just that type of woman anyway?
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