I always found it interesting that one would be troubled by their wife's past.
You obviously think she is gorgeous otherwise you would not have married her.
Unless you were her first boyfriend and married her as a virgin, if you find her gorgeous, chances are other guys do as well.
Personally my wife is as open as her memory permits. As am I. Some late night drunken hook-ups are only remembered when talking to friends or being in a particular area. Not trying to hide anything, just not that memorable. I get more taken back by her old long term relationships as she has been in love before. Clearly she would still be with them if it mattered, but that bothers me more than any High School or College guy who she slept with.
If it does bother you, check out the movie Chasing Amy.
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