In my own experience, times like this does bring this sort of situation to the fore. For example I went to a lap dancing bar not too long ago expecting the usual no touching rule to be enforced. However, I was then told by the girls themselves that touching was allowed if we paid an optional extra £5. It would seem that the club was much more quieter than normal for quite a while so they allowed the girls to do this to bring the club more punters and to allow the girls to make a bit more. The girl I had dancing for me told me that it was optional for the girls but most girls who worked there needed the money really badly. Some to keep a roof over their heads others to pay off a loan of some sort. This was in their opinion the next best thing to prostitution.
So I pose this question. Is this ethical ? or are we just doing something to help these girls /women out, something for something. Or are we taking advantage of a vulnerable person. Like PostmanUK I think it is a bit of a dilema.
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Originally Posted by postmanuk
There’s probably not a guy (like me) who would not drive a good few miles to see a naked lady.
Times are hard back here in the UK, and parts of Europe are much worse. But from such adversity comes opportunity; perhaps this opportunism is taking advantage? Who knows?
With money being tight, and many younger mums struggling to make ends meet, for those without a second breadwinner in the family a hitherto unpleasant suggestion of showing your nakedness, makes more sense, financial sense.
The trick is to find those women who are open to an idea, rather than catch a slap from some lesser-mind soul.
It is possible from my experience to engage a young lady to allow you to see her naked even, with certain restrictions (usually no face) take pictures for your private home use. The number of young ladies from Iberia who now frequent amateur webcam sites, where they are allowed to make tips, real money has blossomed in recent years (60% youth unemployment has probably made the situation develop).
So, with care, it is possible to get to see real ladies naked, for not much cash and for a bit more money to actually take pictures.
Don’t be creepy, make the lady laugh, be honest, and pay cash + a small bonus and then, for the 100s upon 100s of guys whose wife will not let them take pictures, but so want to have this experience, it is possible to marry up those with money, to those who find it hard to make ends meet.
Perhaps I am wrong, misguided and this is exploitative; I don’t think so.
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