[Fluffykins]

Submissives aren't really my thing, so I had passed this thread by. But having just read it, I've been there too.
I had a girl who enjoyed pain and punishment and would deliberately do something wrong so that I would punish her sexually for doing it. At f irst I just found it weird, then a bit exciting but I began to get sickened by her needs and generalised weirdness, so I let her go.
Here's an example of what J did. We had been in a group of friends together for a couple of years and eventually J became 'my' girl which is when the problems started. We'd make a date; 7 pm at a certain spot. J would not turn up. But then she'd call me about three hours later full of desperate apologies and wanting to come round to say sorry. I was just back from uni and living at home prior to geting a job, so that wasn't possible. So we agreed to meet the next night and she was there this time. But she wanted me to punish her for not turning up previously. She wanted me to spank her. So I did. Not easy in a car, but I did it. And it turned her on terrifically so we fucked in the car.
And that was the start of it. We'd make a date. J would be late or not turn up. Then we'd meet again and she would want me to punish her for standing me up. So I'd beat her, or bite her labia or pull her pubic hair out or twist her nipples etc etc.
After a while I began to realise that she was manipulating me into punishing her. She was deliberately being late or not being there or whatever (even deliberately spilling a drink on me) to get me annoyed so that I would punish her. The harder the better.
Finally, I did get really annoyed with her and I made her bleed. I felt sickened, but she was triumphant - she'd got the extreme reaction she wanted and she had the injuries to prove it.
I couldn't go on, and I ended the relationship. I just found it too depressing having to control her and feed her neurosis all the time. I got a job away, moved and never heard from her again.
So, be prepared.