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Originally Posted by Esq2K
I would talk with her and tell her that you know about her and the friend. If she is seeing him on the side that can have very serious implications for your relationship also. Since it excites you that she may be doing it, it is better to have it out in the open and be honest with eachother. The benefit is you can tell her she can do it with your permission and you can arrange to be there to see it in person.
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I pretty much agree with Esq2k. If she is doing stuff behind your back, it will start to feel a lot more like she is cheating on you and a lot less like something that turns you on. If you talk to her and get it out in the open, you can free yourself to enjoy the situation. You can hear about the details from your wife, and even arrange to see things. But the way it is right now is not good. It will fester and you will begin to resent your wife, and your friend.
Good luck