Father's seeing their daughter's friend naked and similar incidents
I wanted to start a new thread asking about any experiences where a father might have seen one of his daughter's friends naked. Or maybe where a father was upset because someone he knows saw his daughter naked. I found a couple examples around the web to get things started. Enjoy and please share your own!
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From the perspective of a teen girl. Found on Yahoo.
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One of my good friends is paired with me for a senior project at school, so I was staying at her house all weekend trying to get a head start. Apparently, their hall bathroom upstairs was off limits while her dad was waiting on plumber to fix the pipes or something. The first night I forgot and was brushing my teeth when her dad yelled at me to get out, which was kinda awkward.
So the next day, we had worked all afternoon and were rushing to get ready to go out cause we were late. My friend was in her bathroom shower and since her parents weren’t home, I thought I would take a chance and use the shower in the hall bathroom. I had just started showering when I hear banging on the door and her dad yelling "Turn it off! Waters leaking downstairs!" I guess he had come back, so I yell back "Hold on!" But then he barges in and can see me totally naked because the glass is clear! He's yelling for me to turn it off and I'm freaking out. I get the water turned off and turn back around trying to cover up but he had already grabbed my towel from the counter and he stuffed it over the drain. There I am still naked and soaking wet with no towel when he orders me to my friend's room. He even followed right behind me all the way down the hall before he said "call your parents and tell them to bring their check book!!" and stormed off.
I was completely embarrassed and my parents were really mad too. My friend even said it was my own fault and my parents want me to go over and drop off an an apology note. But I'm like it's not fair, he got to see me naked! I don't want to face my friends mom or especially her dad again.
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From the perspective of a mother
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My husband’s company held a family retreat in southern Florida recently. It was expected that all families attend, so myself and our daughter went too. After spending the day kayaking and paddle boarding most people were waiting to use these changing stalls that were set up. Well my daughter who is a senior in high school wanted to leave ASAP, so she went away from the group and changed between some cars.
When she came back she was complaining about how we were still waiting in line when my husband’s boss and a coworker walk up. The coworker starts joking how changing by the cars might be a good idea as long as you don’t care about being in view of people nearby checking their voicemail. Apparently, they had seen our daughter change and thought joking about it in front of us was funny. If that wasn’t bad enough, when my husband’s boss saw my daughter’s shocked reaction he said “Oh don’t worry dear, you have a cute fanny!” Then the coworker (who my husband already didn’t like) added “Yeah, we didn’t mind the free show”. We were all stunned and now my husband is really angry. He feels like they were inappropriate by joking and got one over on him by seeing our daughter naked.
Is there anything he can do or say at this point? I just want him to feel better and us all to get passed an embarrassing moment.
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