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Originally Posted by newtoncreek
I got divorced three months ago, my ex was great in bed but never adventuresome. My new girlfriend "Kelly" is a co-worker, she has a crazy reputation... I have a few questions about my impending MFM:
1. Can I set up ground rules ahead of time or do I let it all go (I really don't want to touch him or get his semen on me)? Is that bad form? Do I just let it play out and man up?
2. Seeing her get fucked by another man will be hot, but I assume that it will not be as good as seeing someone I love in that situation? Correct? Back when I was with my wife I fantasized about it, I feel that watching some who is "mine" and I love with another man is a whole different feeling that watching a pretty much "friends with benefits" girl in the same situation.
3. Can I insist (well maybe ask nicely) that Kelly set up a FMF threesome after this? I'm pretty she has done that and I wouldn't mind trying that out for the first time as well.
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I can offer advice from a novice's point of view. Novice, not inexperienced, but I haven't done this enough to give the kind of advice I'm sure you'll get from others more experienced. Your questions are the kind I had too.
1. You
and she set the rules ahead. I don't think you want to meet him for the first time right beforehand. Let her know about your limits. Ask about her limits, including photography.
Get as much info about the guy (and his limits) beforehand. Don't rule-out sloppy seconds before you try it.
2. Everyone, every couple and every situation is different. FWBs though are certainly easier.
3. Ask about a FMF after the party goes well.
AND... report your results! (illustrated)