[newtoncreek]

I got divorced three months ago, my ex was great in bed but never adventuresome. My new girlfriend "Kelly" is a co-worker, she has a crazy reputation...that's what I'm looking for, a wild girl who I don't care about (got burned by the ex, that's another story.)

One night last week we were watching a soft core late night porn on tv. Kelly mentions that the porn would be better if two guys were in it with the girl not just one. I ask her if she had ever done MFM and she said "many times".

She then asked if I would like to bring another guy in...I shook my head yes.

So she is presently setting up a "date". (she apparently has guys she can call just for this....told you she is crazy).

As I have never been in the room with another man in a sexual situation, I have a few questions about my impending MFM:

1. Can I set up ground rules ahead of time or do I let it all go (I really don't want to touch him or get his semen on me)? Is that bad form? Do I just let it play out and man up?

2. Seeing her get fucked by another man will be hot, but I assume that it will not be as good as seeing someone I love in that situation? Correct? Back when I was with my wife I fantasized about it, I feel that watching some who is "mine" and I love with another man is a whole different feeling that watching a pretty much "friends with benefits" girl in the same situation.

3. Can I insist (well maybe ask nicely) that Kelly set up a FMF threesome after this? I'm pretty she has done that and I wouldn't mind trying that out for the first time as well.

I am kind of nervous about this...this is a whole new thing for me. We are going to try to do this before Christmas but I travel a lot so I may be after New Years....I will let you guys know!