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A good friend for decades and I had a drink together recently, and he was very happy. I asked if it was his business, and he said he would share a secret. His wife finally gave him a blow job. I was shocked. I assume everyone's wife sucks them sometimes and most do it to completion sometimes. My wife does it automatically, and has ever since our fifth or sixth date almost 50 years ago.

My friend said his wife, who is still very attractive with great breasts, enjoyed intercourse but oral and anal were never an option. The only reason he got his BJ this time was that his wife's best friend got a new Miata convertible for her birthday, and his wife now wanted one, too. He agree to save up and get her one---but he wanted the BJ in exchange. After several months, he had the down payment and bought the car in time for her birthday. She was elated, but that weekend when he asked for his end of the bargain, she had rules. He had to shower twice, use special soap and she wanted him to either use a flavored condum or jerk off once before she sucked him so he would not accidentally come in her mouth. If he came in her mouth, she would not let him have intercourse for 6 months, and never consider another blowjob.

He negotiated, and she would suck him for 2 minutes, while massaging his balls, and he would get to take two photos of her blowing him, to jack off to in the future. In return, he would not come in her mouth, but could finish either fucking her or jerking on her face--his choice. They agreed on a weekend, and they went out to dinner, and returned for his reward. He said it was great---and long overdue. She did a good job, he said, and didn't use her teeth or hurt him, and he was challenged to not come down her throat--but he didn't. He shot off on her nose and forehead, and she was ok with that. She told him it was not as bad as she had expected, and would do it again when he did something special for her again.

I thought oral sex was a given these days, and that teenage girls gave BJ's on their dates as easily as girls gave up first kisses back in the days I was dating.

Do you know of any women----who like men----that will not give BJ's?